8 thoughts on “I always feel like a failure

  1. You don’t just wake up one morning and you feel better. You work through. You sort your feelings and determine where the problem is, where it seems lacking.
    My advice to you is that no one will make you feel better, it’s your responsibility. You are your won healer, savior, warrior, and even you are you are own lover. You just have to know what you want for yourself, and work through.
    Life is hard, it’s brutal, but unless you don’t celebrate the little victory that you have, then you will always lament how unfair is. Change how you see the world and you’ll change how you live in it.
    Believe in yourself and you’ll how much greater things you are capable.

    I wish you all the best.

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  2. Omg I’m just like this. I totally lack confidence and experience imposter syndrome. I am trying very hard to not hate myself, as hating myself is my normal pattern. When I write self-love/self-esteem/self-compassion posts that are about being proud of myself etc, it is only because I’m trying to convince myself of those kinder ways of viewing myself. It doesn’t come natural. Therapy does help…but realistically it takes a long time to undo those ingrained patterns. I always assume people’s negative posts are about me too…But I try and break that paranoid cycle as much as possible. It *can* be done. Things will get better 🤗🤗🤗

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    • Yeah I know, it’s hard to break the cycle of paranoia. It’s absolutely complete nonsense in my head the majority of the time, its just blocking it out I’m having trouble with. I’m taking my therapists advice, I blush every time she gives me a compliment like a school child, but I know I’ll get to the point when I start to believe her. You should be proud of urself and you are a compassionate and all around great human. 🤗💗☺


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